Second: if you or I can categorically ignore the clear prescriptions God lays out in Exodus 20:10, 20:17, 20:25, 21:16, 21:17, 22:2, 22:25, 22:29, 23:10, 23:13-17, Lev 12:3 (and so on) and yet be forgiven and live in God's grace, why is it that we cannot lie, murder, steal or marry our
nephew's goat and yet be forgiven and live in God's grace?
My second point: the Bible is not reliable as a moral foundation and you are in fact (like me) a moral relativist for ignoring some of God's commandments while insisting that we all follow certain others.